Monday, September 30, 2013

What's Baby D Been Up To Lately?

Baby Derrick is a healthy, happy baby, currently 6.5 months old.
Here are some of D's activities-

His first steps with the walker


Lounging on his lion chair, which has become a comfy pillow for mommy and daddy 


His first ride on the swing at Wicker Park!


Going down the slide with Daddy!


We attended cousin Aaron and Christina's wedding






We also have a trip to Long Island in two days for another wedding :]
Will update when we get back.
Until the next post, keep us in your prayers!

Monday, September 16, 2013

Weaning Baby D from Breast Milk to Formula and Starting Solids

Baby D is just 2 days shy of six months, and he has been on formula and solids for about 12 days.
He still looks for food by rubbing his nose against my boobs or tapping my boobs with his little hands, but once the bottle is in his mouth, he is content.
He feeds 8oz per feeding and he does about 4-5 feedings per 24 hours.
So this is how it all went down.

Weaning Day1
First had to find out which bottle he will take expressed breast milk from.
We had, Dr Browns, Dr Browns Nurser, Nuk, Playtex nurser with drop ins.
After trying all four kinds (with extreme patience and a lot of 'please' 'good boy' and coaxing), the winner was the Playtex nurser with drop ins.
So he had total of 20 oz of breast milk from the bottle, and the rest of the feedings, I fed exclusively from the breast. We had a quarter of a ripened banana mushed up.

Weaning Day 2
Since we found out which bottle he likes, next I mixed 1/2 formula 1/2 breast milk to the bottle hoping he'd take it.....but to no avail... what's the problem?
Called my mom and asked what she did when she weaned me off, and she said "I mixed a little bit of a sugar in the formula"
Ok. So I took 8 oz of water, mixed 1/2 tbsp of sugar, and mixed two scoops of formula, and had baby D latch... he sucked on it for about a minute, but spit it out with a grimace.... hm... what is the problem???
Ended up bottle feeding the rest of the day with expressed breast milk. Had a half of a mushed up banana.

Weaning Day 3
Did 8 oz of water, 1/2 tbsp of sugar, two scoops of formula.... what can I do differently? WARM IT UP UNDER RUNNING HOT WATER! Since my breast milk was probably warm, the formula also had to be warm... DUH!
Warmed the bottle up, so that it felt borderline hot, but really warm, gave it to baby D, and HE DOWNED IT LIKE A CHAMP!
Now what I had to do was wean him off the sugar, so throughout the day I decreased the amount of sugar.
The next feeding I did 8 oz H2O, 1tsp sugar, 2 scoops of formula.
The following feeding I did 8 oz H2O, 1/2 tsp sugar, 2 scoops of formula
The next feeding after that, I did 8 oz H2O, 1/4 tsp sugar, 2 scoops of formula
The last feeding of the day, I did 8 oz H2O, NO SUGAR, and 2 scoops of formula, and he took it so well!
All the feedings were with warmed up milk.
And we had a 1/2 of banana mushed up.

STOPPING THE LACTATION(Weaning Day 1-3)
While the weaning was going on, my boobs went crazy, because the milk had nowhere to go now.
So it kept building up and up. The pressure was unbearable.
This is what I did.
I pumped ALL THE MILK OUT, like until my boobs totally looked non-existent. This for me is about and hour of pumping. Then I made ice packs with a 2zip lock bags, 2 washcloths, ice cubes from the freezer. Then I wore a tight sportsbra, stuffed the ice packs in each boob, then I bound the boobs real tight with the hands free pump bra thing I got. I also took motrin, since the pain was unbearable.
I did this for 3 days, and most of my milk dried up. I still leak a little bit now and then, but I don't get the let down sensation or the rock hard feeling.

Solids
Hubby had purchased the Cuisinart Baby, and it really does making your own baby food easier.
It has the steam function and the puree function together, so it's really convenient.
So far, baby D has tried, apples, avocados, bananas. We will move on to pears, carrots, and peas, real soon.
After weaning day 3, we started baby D on Gerber rice cereal, which he liked tremendously right away.


This is his feeding schedule so far, 8 oz formula right after he wakes up, and another one after 2-3 hours, then rice cereal around noon, then formula again, then banana or some other solid food, then formula again, bath, formula before he sleeps, and then another formula if he wakes up in the middle of the night.

Around 6.5 months, I plan on giving him solids 3 times a day, one rice cereal, one fruit, one veggie.


POOP
Depending on the solid food he eats that day, his poop color changes. If he has avocado, then it's green. If he just has bananas then it's yellow. He also sometimes poops 3-4 times a day, and some days he doesn't poop at all. I think his digestive system is trying to figure out what to do with the solids. So I figure his poop will be inconsistent until his body gets used to more solids.

Daddy Involvement
Now that Baby D doesn't need my breasts any more, the husband has been much involved with the feedings, and that has increased the bond between baby D and him. It also gives me some free time to do stuff, like shower :]

Husband and Me Time
My breasts being free really made my husband and me come closer once again. Since I was always at Baby D's beck and call, we really didn't have husband and wife time, but now, we do.
Sex life is great, and we are back to being a couple again, not just roommates.

We have baby D's 6 month check up in two days, so until then, keep us in your prayers!

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Baby D's first real sickness: Croup

So when Baby D was in Korea, he caught the Croups at 5 months old.

At first I thought it was a slight cold, so I did what I usually do, nasal passage way cleansing, sitting in steam while running hot shower, cold mist humidifier...

But symptoms got worse, and this time around he had a terrible terrible cough that sounded like a barking seal. He also lost his voice, so he couldn't even cry out loud. Poor thing just cried and cried and couldn't make a sound. :[

Good thing was that he was still breastfeeding really well.

The first doctor we saw was a resident at a university hospital and she was basically useless, so we went to a specialized pediatrician, and she was the one who diagnosed and treated Baby D the right way.

First off, she was so shocked at Baby D's pain threshold. She said most babies would be hysterical and almost near colicky if they were as sick as he was. She said if we had come any later he might had to have been hospitalized....

Secondly, she said the only way to treat him was to administer antibiotics  and steroid shot for him... at first I was a bit hesitant about giving drugs to Baby D. She saw that I was worried and she said
1. the croups is caused by a virus, and the only way to suppress and kill off the virus is through antibiotics, and
2. Baby D's throat was so inflammed so it was blocking his airway, and so we need to give him the steroid shot to widen it

So he was put on meds, and surprisingly, he took it very well. I squirted the meds in his mouth, waited for him to swallow, and breastfed him right after. He took them for five days, and the doctor still told me to do what I did, keep his nasal passage clean, cold mist humidifier, hot steam...

Poor Baby D, with his jet lag, and also the croups, seemed a bit wilted, but after a week, he was completely fine, and he couldn't have been happier.

My mom and I tried to trace back the source of his sickness, and it turns out one of my mom's lady friends had been sick with a terrible cold. It's my guess that her virus went into D's system and transformed to the croup virus.

It's never easy to see your baby sick, and cry for his dear life, but this too was an experience for both me and Baby D. Now I know what symptoms to look out for if he ever does catch it again (crossing my fingers he won't)

Until the next post,  (about weaning him off breast feeding to formula feeding, which is going on right now :] ) keep us in your prayers!

Friday, September 6, 2013

Baby D's First Trip to Korea

Such a huge feat for both Derrick and me!
Pictures are worth thousand words... so without further ado-














































































There should be more pictures but they're probably in either my sister's or my mom's phone... I'll ask them to send it to me and update more later...

Lots of things happened in Korea, and I'm sad I didn't get to do some of the things I had planned on doing with Derrick, my parents, and my sister. 
But! we have FaceTime :]

There will be another post about the croup Derrick caught while in Korea...and more pictures!!!
Until the next post, keep us in your prayers!